Mary & George Part 1
2016-11-03
A reprint of a series I originally drew in August 2004:Continue Reading
Never a helpmeet Part 9: Donald Trump and the cult of patriarchy
2016-10-20
It’s fitting that I wrote this series in 2016, the year that Donald Trump is running for President of the United States against our first-ever female candidate, Hillary Clinton. It’s a current event so loaded with metaphorical significance it’s hard to believe it’s really happening. Trump is a distillation ofContinue Reading
Never a helpmeet Part 8: Why patriarchy?
2016-10-16
One thing that has puzzled me since I was a child and watched Phyllis Schlafly seemingly single-handedly defeat the Equal Rights Amendment: why do they do it? Anti-feminists, I mean? I can sort of see why people didn’t want to change in the first place, because people resist change. AndContinue Reading
Never a helpmeet Part 7: Jesus was no patriarch
2016-10-15
Christian patriarchy is obviously offensive to feminists, no matter their religion. But it should be just as offensive to Christians, because it’s such a distortion from what Jesus actually taught. It’s as different from basic Christian theology as the teachings of Mormons or Jehovah’s Witnesses. Yet followers of the patriarchyContinue Reading
Note to self: Does your novel have the same flaws as Crimson Peak?
2016-10-15
Last year, I finished most of a draft of the sequel to Waking Up Naked In Strange Places (working title: Stripping Down to Scars). For a while I set it aside, because I was caught up in doing things related to the published novel, but during the Clarion West Write-a-ThonContinue Reading
Never a helpmeet Part 6: Pride and shame
2016-10-14
In June, Pride Parade day in Seattle came and went. The parade featured expressions of solidarity with the victims and survivors of the Orlando nightclub shooting. There was one telling moment of juxtaposition: an Episcopalian church marching in the parade, with signs that told everyone they were loved, and freeContinue Reading
Never a helpmeet Part 5: The new misogynists
2016-10-13
A couple of years ago, a young man identifying himself as an “incel” (involuntarily celibate, which normal people call “single”) went on a killing spree, because, according to his video manifesto, he was fed up with women dating “obnoxious men” instead of him, the “supreme gentleman” and he was goingContinue Reading
Never a helpmeet Part 4: Patriarchal narratives
2016-10-12
As an ex church-goer, living in one of the least church-going parts of the country, it’s easy for me to forget about church as a potential answer to the question “where on earth do people get these bizarre and terrible ideas?” The last time I attended an evangelical church, aContinue Reading
Never a helpmeet Part 3: Patriarchy, what happened to it?
2016-10-11
So what is patriarchy, anyway? This is an area where the Quiverfull version is, at least, honest, openly declaring itself to be pushing patriarchy and setting itself against feminism. Secular anti-feminists — the informal kind you run into on the Internet, anyway — are in the habit of denying thatContinue Reading
Never a helpmeet Part 2: The cult of lifestyle Christianity
2016-10-10
The Christian patriarchy has a plan for world domination that involves out-reproducing feminists, liberals, heathens, secular humanists, etc. This plan is very white-America-centric. It also assumes that each subsequent generation has no apostates who leave the faith. Evangelicals typically believe in a literal hell which only their particular version ofContinue Reading
Never a helpmeet Part 1: Selfish
2016-10-09
I finished reading Quiverfull: Inside the Christian Patriarchy Movement by Kathryn Joyce (2009). I was looking for additional insight into the kinds of experiences Abby might have had growing up in a family cult based on patriarchy doctrine teachings, such as Quiverfull. The book was informative, but I found readingContinue Reading
Bumbershoot, having a good time without me
2016-09-05
A year ago I went to Bumbershoot, and wrote this, but didn’t post it: I didn’t want to have to tell you this, Bumbershoot, but this year you kind of sucked. I know, it’s hard. You’ve had a lot of turmoil, a lot of difficulty, one budget crisis after another.Continue Reading
2016 Write-a-thon Week 5 report: little failures
2016-07-28
Halfway through the final week — we’re really in the home stretch now! (At the actual workshop, this was the point where we started painting each others’ toenails.) Accomplishment-wise, week 5 was kind of a mixed bag. I was on vacation for my birthday and was hoping to check twoContinue Reading